Well... You kinda do have to be cautious at first. Most guys are ghetto as hell and want to get in your pants. some people wont try til they get to know you. I can't stand being asked that many questions. Some guys have no shame what so ever. pft. Now,that doesn't mean girls are any better. i barely can be friends with one since most will be quick to backstab you for a ddoser,drama,etc. They want to go around and send guys things and get the things. A lot of girls are twofaces...along with the guys. e.e Though , im sure there are still other good people though its hard to tell since many want to be fake. LIKE WHAT THE HECK ?! How are you going to expect me to be friends with a fake person ?! You don't. Change yourself! >:c
@FluffySheep The smart guys won't differ between "getting in your pants" and "getting to know you". They will do the latter to achieve the former and if they have a little bit of self esteem to start off, their chances are not bad, I guess I don't know how other guys do that precisely actually (everyone is a bit different), but my goal is always to get to know a girl first - at least a little. What I do next then depends on whether I am interested in "more" or not. I either go "a bit further" asking some spicier questions, making some certain movements, if the situation allows (very important to find the right timing) etc. - to get a bit closer, while some time passes (I won't rush it) or just "let it be": I am still trying to be as nice as I can, but don't show any obvious indications that I want more of her - I think, it shows how I feel about a girl in general - which caused me trouble once. The subconscious and also "natural" indications are well-nigh impossible to hide, I believe - they will always be there... Being friends with girls? I believe, it is difficult - not impossible, but difficult. There are girls to whom I am being kind and stuff, but we're not friends per se. The problem with that is that, honestly spoken, people will almost always assume that I am just trying to get into her pants, as you said. People will start judging you, start asking and guessing whether you are in a relationship with her. Even the girl in question here you were "just talking and being nice to" will start to think about intimate, sexual things - even though you both are not that interested in each other - and I do the same. I will always behave a little differently in front of a girl than in front of a guy. Call it "only wanting to get into your pants", but I guess it is part of our nature as humans. The key here is to be a bit subtle with these thoughts in these situations...
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That's mind-blogging for me, all in my eight years of playing rf I found some of the most irreplaceable friends, All I can say there are good peeps that play this Alpha-staged game, but the number is miniscule. Tbh I always had a knack for finding great friends. Most of them quit and I'm lone wolf. Side note: If you act ghetto af I completely shun people like that it's a pet peeve of mine.